Spotlight on a man in pursuit of wholeness. 

“Get me out of Egypt so I can worship You!” (Ref: Exodus 7:16) 

These ten words—my desperate plea for gender, marriage, and sexual wholeness—set the stage for a divine drama I could never have scripted. The plot did not unfold with an instant revelation, a flawless marriage, or a sudden transformation. But oh, what a breathtaking journey it has been! 

From a young age, I’ve been captivated by the power of words, music, and storytelling. Whether through crossword puzzles, composing melodies, or delving into scripture, my passion for expression burns like a fire in my soul. Born and raised in New York during the sixties and seventies, I grew up in a rich, multicultural environment that shaped my worldview. My education ranged from parochial schools to an HBCU, and those years remain a wellspring of joy and inspiration. 

I've had some issues in my life for many years, but I found peace, especially in staying unstained by pornography—until one fateful moment, just in time for a midlife crisis, I stumbled upon a website. The descent was swift, and in my despair, I cried out that desperate prayer. Our God, the Master Playwright, had already written a redemptive arc for me. Through His love and grace, I discovered the true script for manhood, marriage, and Kingdom-building (Genesis 2:24). 

Now, with a Master of Science in Addiction Counseling, a Certified Sexual Addiction Specialist certification, and a Prepare-Enrich Marriage Facilitator designation, I stand on this stage as the Founder and Executive Director of The Governor’s Coach. My greatest spiritual gift—Artistic Communication—equips me to guide husbands in their God-given roles with wisdom, creativity, and conviction.

I am not just a coach. I am an acting coach for life’s most sacred role—the godly husband. Together, we will step into the spotlight of God’s purpose, transforming from men of self-ambition to men of “God’s Glory”-ambition. The curtain is up. The scene is set. Are you ready to step into your role?